Archive - Black and White and Gold

Episode 81 - Integration

Applying The Irreversible Spiral - Looking back on several episodes from the season and showing how the Spiral works within them.

Jul 16 • Black and White and Gold, Rob Allred, and Carly Allred

59:42

Episode 80 - Revisiting Partnership Over Hierarchy in a Marriage

You don't want a spouse to "rule" over you, but what are the other options?

Jul 9 • Black and White and Gold, Carly Allred, and Rob Allred

51:27

Episode 79 - Revisiting Vulnerability in Male/Female Relationships

You want your man to be vulnerable, but is it safe for him to be?

Jul 2 • Black and White and Gold, Carly Allred, and Rob Allred

51:28

June 2026

May 2026

Episode 74 - Sacred Marriage -- With Yourself??

Union with self is required before deep union with others, but we usually do it backward. Let's discuss...

May 28 • Black and White and Gold, Carly Allred, and Rob Allred

32:22

Episode 73 - Stay Connected to Your Spouse Without Losing Yourself

Differentiation Without Disconnection in a Partnership

May 21 • Black and White and Gold, Rob Allred, and Carly Allred

1:03:41

Episode 72 - Differentiation and Boundaries vs Manipulation

For some, "boundaries" has become an excuse to avoid accountability. Let's talk about it.

May 14 • Black and White and Gold, Rob Allred, and Carly Allred

1:06:54

Episode 71 - Are Men the Problem? Part 2 of 2

...And what even is the solution?

May 7 • Black and White and Gold, Rob Allred, and Carly Allred

53:35

April 2026

Episode 70 - Are Men the Problem? Part 1 of 2

The Rape Culture is real, and it's heavy, and we can do something about it

Apr 30 • Black and White and Gold, Rob Allred, and Carly Allred

52:27

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